We have a chalkboard that is in the hall near the mudroom. I leave messages or the kids do or draw pictures. This past couple of days my first grader- Jack has left little notes that say how many days till daddy leaves. Then he draws a sad face. Today at 5am I had to wake my kids to drive hubby-their daddy to the base so he could leave for Afghanistan. They were tired and sad for him to leave. It is hard no matter when they leave but even harder near Christmas. He will miss so much this deployment. Christmas, a pre-k program, all the birthdays, valentines day, Easter, pre-k graduation, a first dance recital, all my son's first year of playing basket ball, and pretty much the whole summer break.
Sometime after school today my first grader wrote this:
It ripped my heart out and it will kill my hubby when he gets to where he is going and sees it.
I hope my kids weather well through this. I know they are strong but kids shouldn't have to be this strong. It isn't fair to them.
Here they all are at 5 saying goodbye to daddy.